To fail at being part of a Christian family is, by extension, to fail God.For Nicole, who grew up in a CDD household, suggesting CDD to her initially-reluctant husband was a natural manifestation of her own upbringing.
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She’s not exaggerating: the main Yahoo listserv features near-daily examples of women asking how they can get their husbands to punish them more often (the reverse is rare); and nearly all of Amazon’s CDD authors are women. omen I interviewed describe a hunger for submission that blends the spiritual with the profane.
They are careful to distinguish their lifestyle from BDSM, whose strictly sadomasochistic elements they reject.
It’s a system that treats households, rather than individuals, as the foundational blocks of the relationship with God: younger children submit to older children, children to their mother, their mother to the father, the father to God.
The family’s piety is understood not simply via its members’ relationship to God – only the father has a ‘direct line, so to speak – but through individual members’ willingness to fulfil their natural roles: as obedient children, or surrendered wives.
Sexual – even kinky – imagery has long been part of the religious tradition: submission to God an act with a decidedly erotic edge.
But is CDD a continuation or a violation of that tradition?, a self-published ebook collection of ‘Christian Domestic Discipline’ stories, is structured along these lines.A woman disobeys her husband (or father) – emboldened by the notion that ‘women nowadays thought they could do whatever they wanted – only to be punished physically: usually by spanking. In one story, it ‘turn[s] crimson as if he’d paddled her good and hard, and each stroke of the leather blanch[ing] it white with a belt mark.Are fears expressed by its critics, that it’s Biblically-sanctioned domestic violence, justified?The varied experiences of the CDD wives I spoke to suggest that the answer is both and neither.‘I was subject to maintenance [whippings by my father] every two weeks and I rebelled against it.